Besides, sex shouldn't be treated as a "means to an end". What's got them triggered to high hell is the fact that if these women can muster up all of this sexual adrenaline to get pregnant, why can't they do that just to enjoy being with their partner? Getting pregnant, each husband is fine with. Why? Because they are trying to conceive a child. Now it's like their wives wanna screw like rabbits. Yet as time has gone by, morning sex a few times a week has now become sex twice a month - and that's if they are lucky. This was pretty much the case during the first year of their marriage as well. Why? Well, when they were dating their wife, sex was random, fun and it happened all of the time. I'm working with three couples right now where the husbands are pretty close to being pissed and shutting all the way down. The more thoughtful and attentive the two of you are outside of your bedroom, the easier it will be to act that way inside of it. If you wish you could get more scented soy candles on your nightstand and rose petals on your bed, start with getting together with your partner to plan some dates together, even if you've got to get super creative and have them at home (check out " 10 Romantic Dates You Can Go On (In Your Own Home)").
You know, I've been working with couples for many years now and I find it to be no surprise that a lot of people whose sex lives are ho-hum and subpar are also people who don't spend a lot of quality time together - going on dates (including sex dates), taking weekend road trips, going for walks after dinner, cooking together, dancing to their favorite R&B jams in the living room…you catch my drift. One of the main things to keep in mind about romance is the fact that it needs to happen way before even stepping one foot into your boudoir. Personally, I think it's so important when it comes to sexual activity that I wrote " What Does It Truly Mean When Someone's 'Romantic'?" and " Tonight's The Night For A Really Romantic Sexual Experience" for the site. As far as what's behind Door #2 goes, I'll get more into that in a sec. Whenever I'm talking to married couples about what they wish they received more of, as far as bedroom action is concerned, it never fails that wives will usually say "romance" while husbands typically say "spontaneity". But I'd been going through a lot of transitions in life, and I had deliberately positioned myself to be open to saying yes, to be available to whatever, more than I had in the past." I was having a wild, unfamiliar, uncomfortable experience because it was all just happening in a very spiritual way-a way that's not how I usually arrange things in my life. I'm very practical, fact-based, and masculine. She's very feminine and into spiritual planes, astrology. He admits: "We came from very different worlds. "Almost like, 'Where have you been?'"Īnd although she's a lot more in touch with her spiritual side, whereas Jesse "can be very literal-facts, facts, facts," this "unfamiliar" territory for Jesse wouldn't allow him to deny their connection and attractive energies towards each other.
"It was just like, 'There he is,'" Taylour shared. "I had a dream that I was sleeping next to him," she shared, to which Jesse clarified that her dream happened "the night before we met." Of course, when the stars eventually aligned, it was draped in divine purpose, doing the shit that divinity does. Yes, a healer predicted how Jesse Williams and Taylour Paige met, y'all!Įven though months went by before they would meet, Taylour recalled the vision she had.
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